75% of Women Never Reach an Orgasim from Intercourse

Pay attention! So your girl is not part of the 75%

So it’s finally crunch time. You have a found a girl that is willing to go all the way with you and you want to make sure it’s great for her for a couple of reasons:

1. You want her to be willing to do it again

2. You don’t want to be the “guy” who sucks in bed. This has serious repercussions on your future sex life.

orgasim

It’s true women talk, and they talk about everything! This can be pretty scary for a guy who is not really sure of himself in the bedroom. Not only do you have to make sure you satisfy her, you also have to know you’re doing it.

There’s nothing more annoying for a woman than a guy asking how good he was or how he measures up to every other guy she’s been with. They want a man who can make their toes curl and know he’s doing it.

The dilemma

You’re not that experienced in the bedroom and you really don’t have any idea if she’s having an orgasim or not. If no one has told you before let me be the first:

You will know if she’s having an orgasim!

 

You’re going to know if she’s really having an orgasim, but it is also very possible that she’s not and you think she is. Women definitely fake it, and you don’t want to be the guy they fake it with. You don’t have to be that guy, you’re not going to be that guy. Here’s why:

You know that you need to treat this like any other problem. You have to do your research and understand how to make a girl climax. It’s a science just like anything else and every woman is capable of having an orgasim. They are also more capable of not having one and pretending to.

Don’t run the risk of putting all of that hard work and dedication into finding a good looking girl who is willing to have sex with you, and then you do it once and never hear from her again. Can you imagine what this is going to do to your confidence level?

Don’t be that guy!  Be ready!

In order to make sure you are not another one of the average guys who absolutely has no idea about pleasuring women, you need to be prepared before it’s showtime. Not only is this going to make the experience so much better for her, you are going to feel so much better about it.

You know what it feels like to know what you’re doing versus going into something completely blind. If you have done the proper preparation, then no task is too big. This IS confidence, and this is one of the things that every girl seeks out in a man.

Be ready when she’s ready. If you know what you’re doing, it’s going to build your confidence with women and this will make the dating game a lot easier. This is such a fear to you that you are researching it right now, which is a great sign. You want to be good in bed.

So you’ve made a step in the right direction, don’t stop now. If you do the proper research, you will probably forget that you ever read this page because you are going to have better things to do like GETTING LAID!!

30 and Never Had a Girlfriend

Never had a girlfriend at 30

So this is the magic number, the age you decided you were going to do something to change your life. It was only a couple of years ago for me, and I remember the day very vividly. Along with the overwhelming feeling of “getting old”, I was still a single man with a cabinet full of paper and plastic cookware.

It turned out that 30 really wasn’t much different than any other day, it was just easier to remember my age when people asked. I did make the changes in my life that I had put the “30″ age limit on. It took a couple of years for them to really develop, but I got the ball rolling.

Yeah, I was 30 and never had a girlfriend. It turns out that was exactly what was missing in my life. There’s nothing that will get things moving like a woman. There’s a way to make this happen too, but first a public service announcement about turning 30…

The difference a woman in your life can make

Yeah you can get up and go fishing on the weekends without any hassle (or any other thing you want), but that’s really about the extent of it. There are so many other positives that out-weigh the illusion of freedom. Women add something to your life that you aren’t capable of adding.

The fact is we are designed to work in pairs. A person needs someone they can communicate with, someone to share their deepest feelings and emotions with. Yeah, you can get on a chat forum and talk to people, but it really doesn’t have the same effect.

Not only does a girlfriend give you the companionship that we naturally desire, they also do things like: make sure you smell good when you leave the house, visit your family as often as you should, and make sure you’re not eating just hot pockets and pizza, oh and having sex more than once a year is pretty awesome too.

There are so many advantages to list, but that’s not what this post is about. It’s about showing you how to find that girlfriend, because let’s face it: you’re not getting any younger.

How to find a girlfriend at 30

Social Media

Breaking news:

The dating scene has changed quite a bit in the last 10 years, and men who haven’t been in it have no idea what’s going.

Well guess what, Women do

This is what you need to understand. While you’re watching the game on tv or playing Call of Duty, a woman is talking to people because that is what they love to do. They love to interact socially. This may not mean anything to you, but if that’s what they’re doing and you want to have a chance to talk to one; you probably need to be where she might be.

Facebook, Twitter, Google+, and all of that other stuff

social media for 30 and never had a girlfriend

That’s right interacting with people has never been easier than it is today. Women can talk to anyone they want to, anytime they want to. You need to be one of them, so here’s what you need to do. Quit being a social introvert or a conspiracy theorist and get on the technology train.

Yeah it seems kind of weird to most of us guys, expressing your feelings in public or telling someone when you take a trip to the store; but it has its benefits and you can use it for other things than just what you think social media is for. Social media is actually perfect for a guy who is 30 and never had a girlfriend.

You need to be able to show a woman that you are capable of displaying a little emotion or feeling. They like seeing interaction with your mother for example. Make a profile on all of the popular social media sites and be sincere about it. If they see that you regularly post, it shows them that you have something in common, you’re interested in others. Show them that you have relationships with other people just like they do.

It’s pretty simple to get a woman you might be interested in to friend you or follow you on Facebook or Twitter. On top of that, even if they do turn you down it’s not face to face or where other people can see. It’s a lot easier to deal with rejection on your computer or phone. You don’t have to worry about that though, because you are going to be completely desirable to women. You just have to know what you’re doing.

Be appealing to women

The fist thing you have to do is decide that you want to be attractive to women. Yeah it’s going to take a little bit of dedication, you have to want to be desirable to women. Women seem really complicated, but they have natural desires and tendencies. You just need to learn what they are and how to use them to your advantage. There is definitely a science to it.

I was 30 and never had a girlfriend too, then I decided to do something about it. I didn’t want to be 40 without ever having a companion. So I went on a search. I used Google and researched what it was all of those other guys were doing to find a girlfriend. It led to some interesting findings, but nothing that was really concrete. I kept searching and ran into the guy who changed everything for me…

I never was the type to fall for the ads you see every time you launch your browser about finding a girlfriend here by doing this. I was at a point in my life where I was fed up with being alone so I decided to click on one of them one day. (Yep, I was one of the suckers who clicked on the link.) I was so frustrated with being alone and not having a bed partner that I gave in and tried one of them. It was absolutely life changing! This guy was a life saver.

I watched the free video that most of them give you before they sell you something, but this one was a little different. He actually gave me a couple of free tips in this video. He showed me a couple of the things that naturally attract women and I tried it one night when I was out with my friends. Guess what: it worked. After seeing this I had to see what else this guy had to offer, so I signed up.

This guy has the art of attracting women down to a science. He put it in a program that shows you everything, even techniques to practice becoming better with women so it is natural. You attract women and don’t even know you’re doing it. It’s without a doubt the best thing I have ever done for my sex life.

It’s understandable if you’re a little skeptical, I was too. I’m telling you though this shit works. Just check out the free video and give it a try. What do you have to lose? I was once like you without a girlfriend at 30 until I watched that video. Now I have had multiple girlfriends, and am proud to say I am in a loving relationship that I would never even be able put a price on.

You’re going to have to do something, no one’s going to do it for you.

Never Had a Girlfriend at 20

Never had a girlfriend at 20

I know it seems like you are a little behind, socially awkward, and completely alone. I was once in the same boat, and to be frankly honest with you. In hindsight it wasn’t really all that bad. I could have had a girlfriend all along.

I know, I know – What do you mean it isn’t all that bad? It is absolutely horrible. It sucks trying to pretend like I’m good with girls around my friends.

Well here’s the truth. Those of us who didn’t take the time to chase girls while all of our other buddies were completely wrapped in it, are actually a little better off.

Sound familiar?

Here’s the reason it’s fine to have never had a girlfriend at 20

You have had an opportunity to develop as an individual at a much faster rate than the average 20 year old. When you spend a lot of time soul-searching, as I’m sure many of you have, like I did. You learn a lot about yourself.

You get to know what it is you expect out of life, you examine your own behavior with a magnifying glass, you have a better way of seeing what other people are like. All of this adds up to you being a much stronger individual.

Guess what?

Women love a man who is sure of himself and knows what he wants. They love this because they really have no clue what it is they want. This is where all of the time spent analyzing yourself and your situation pays off.

You don’t have to act like all of those other idiots who have to lie, cheat, and steal to get a girl to talk to them. You can be yourself.

I know what you’re thinking

If I am such a confident piece of man meat, then why is it I’m not having to beat women off with a stick?

Well there’s a reason for that too…

I was once in the same place you are. I spent some Saturday nights playing video games or in some chat room, maybe catching a game with my buddies and it always felt like I was missing out on something.

Then it dawned on me all at once. How in the hell am I supposed to get a girl if I am not putting myself in a position to find one. Yeah, I hung out parties every once in awhile and had the occasional awkward conversation in passing with a female every now and again.

But that was pretty much the extent of it.

If you are not putting yourself in a place to present opportunities with girls, you’re not going to get a girlfriend. You have to take a little action to get a little action. (I swear I didn’t steal that, just came up with it) :)

Here’s what it means…

You’re going to have to deal with a little awkwardness. You’re going to have to introduce yourself to strange women in order to have a chance with them. I know it sounds terrifying, but it is the simple truth.

The reason you have never had a girlfriend at 20 is because you haven’t given yourself enough opportunities to get one. So how do you go about putting yourself in a position to get a girlfriend?

One trick that helped me is I started talking to random people in random places out of the blue. This was weird and awkward, and I really sucked at it; at first. After you talk to strangers a few times it gets easier and easier.

So that means the next time you’re at the gas station and the person behind the counter is looking at you funny during all of the silence. Just simply say, “hi”. See how it turns out. A lot of times you would be surprised to find out a lot of people think and talk just like you. Even if you didn’t have a clue who they were.

On a simple level, humans are pretty much the same. We all have similar desires, needs, and feelings. Remember this whenever you run into that next awkward, silent moment. That “stranger” might be thinking the exact same thing you are.

Just try it a couple of times. What’s the absolute worse thing that can happen, they don’t say a word and you walk away feeling a little awkward. Well, you kind of felt that way anyways. What you are doing by trying this trick is teaching yourself how to better handle the awkward situation so when it’s go time with a girl you’re interested in. You won’t start sweating profusely, stutter when you try to introduce yourself, or piss down both legs.

Humans inherently learn to adapt to certain emotions and feelings. By putting yourself in situations that cause those feelings, you will naturally learn how to deal with them in a better way.

So now when you talk to that strange woman, you can get past the point of not knowing what to say and get to the good stuff. You’ll be able to show her that you are confident in yourself, and you do know what you want. This means you will be able to stand out when compared to all of the other jerks she’s had to turn down earlier that day.

I was a lot like you. I was 20 and never had a girlfriend too. It got a lot better though. I had to make myself do something about it, and you will too. To be honest with you it’s a lot easier now than it used to be.

never had a girlfriend at 20

There wasn’t such a thing as Facebook and Twitter when I was 20. I only had the one opportunity to introduce myself and get somewhere with a girl maybe get a phone number. Now all you have to do is get out of your shell, show a little interest, and you never know where things might lead.

Maybe you don’t want to be too aggressive during the first encounter. You could still say, “I’ll look you up on Facebook.” It is a lot easier to talk to strange women when you’re not staring into their gorgeous eyes.

Friend her on Facebook and send a message reminding her that you exist. Then have a conversation from the comfortable confines of your home or car. This will allow you to plan what you’re going to say a little bit and not get so scared you start shaking.

Just remember…you have to give yourself an opportunity to meet a girl and show her you have something to offer. Trust me, I never had a girlfriend at 20 and I have had quite a few now. I have actually had a couple tell me they love me, and I’m an idiot; but believe it or not there’s a girl out there looking for that too.

If you like what you have read please try it out, and if it works; pass it along. Maybe you can help someone that’s 20 and never had a girlfriend too.

 

Never Had a Girlfriend? Find out how to instantly look hot to a woman

Follow this if you have never had a girlfriend

I hope you studied…

There is one thing about women that we all know, especially single good-looking women who have a vast number of men approaching them for a date. They have tests that a man must pass in order to prove their worthiness. Nobody likes tests, and it can keep men from even trying. There’s some good news though.

You can pass these tests almost every time, if you know what to look for.

Passing these tests will put you in a small percentage of men who actually have a chance at being a candidate for those gorgeous women who almost every other man is intimidated by.

If you don’t understand the ways to pass these tests, you will likely never have a chance with those types of women. Hot women have to use these tests to weed out the weak and unattractive.

Here’s a video on what women look for in a man:

One of the tests she will use is to see if you are going to do as she says. They are used to men giving into their every desire. Go fetch a drink, rub my feet, etc., and many men willingly do as they please. Most think this is what they have to do in order to further their chances. This is fortunately not the case.

Good looking women can’t act like you and just find a cute mate and see what happens. They are hit on all the time, 10-15 times a day. They start to see patterns in guys who are truly confident and those that are not. Chances are if you are willing to do everything they ask; you are not used to having a shot with an attractive woman, so you don’t want to miss out on the opportunity.

They will use this test to find out if you are confident in yourself or not. If you are just willing to give into their every desire, chances are they are going to think you are just another desperate guy hoping to get a shot with them. They know this is the guy who can never get a girlfriend, you don’t want to give them this image.

How you should act, even if you have never had a girlfriend

Men who are used to being with beautiful women are going to act much differently because talking to a hot woman is ordinary for them. So it is important to not be her servant right from the beginning, this is going to show them that you are on the same level as they are.

This is very important to understand: A beautiful woman is going to give you a test to see if you are willing to bend over backwards for them. This is going to let them know if you are used to being with a good looking woman.

So how do you know if you are getting one of these tests? Usually it will be some kind of demand within a short period of time after meeting. A very common one is getting you to buy them a drink.

There are other small requests she might make: “will you take a picture of us”, “wait here while I go to the bathroom”, “kiss me on the cheek”. How you respond to these tests is crucial, you can’t seem like just another desperate guy.

HOW TO PASS THE TEST

So if a hot girl says, “Take our pictures.” Then you say, “that’s fine, I will but I’m gonna take a picture of you, then you have to take one how I want.” So if they say no, just say “Okay, find some other guy to do it.”

Find another guy and say, “Hey man, can you take this picture real quick?” And you just have them take the picture. Most of the time the woman will say, “fine, you take the picture” and you go “okay, now give me a sexy pose.” Then take another picture. “Now do something goofy”, snap the picture. Continue to take these pictures until you run out of things for her to do.

What you are doing now is taking control of them. This is crucial. Instead of giving into her demands you are actually the one taking control and she has to do as you want. This is called flipping the script. Flipping the script is a very powerful way that you can create a huge amount of intrigue and a huge amount of attraction with a gorgeous woman who you just met.

So now you must always know and recognize when you are being given one of these tests. Once you realize what it is take control and become the one making her comply with your demands, without seeming like a jerk. Women notice these little subtle interactions when the first meet someone and it is a great way to completely spark her interest.

You are going to see a great difference in the way beautiful women start to treat you if you use this approach when meeting a beautiful woman. Instead of just giving into their desires like all the other guys at the bar, you are going to stand out and get treated differently by them because of it. You can sit back and see the results as well, watch other guys fail this test from a distance. After you see them walk away with their heads down, you can either approach them and give them a little advice, or move in for the kill. Your choice.

This is just an example of one of the triggers that all women have and many don’t realize they do. You always hear about guys who treat women like jerks end up with the good looking ones. Well that’s not the case. They probably visited this site and realized that women are attracted by this type of behavior, and now they are reaping the benefits. Any guy can be one of these guys too, even if they have never had a girlfriend.

Still not convinced this will help you if you have never had a girlfriend?

Check out this post!

 

Avoid Awkward Moments With This Neat Trick

We’ve all heard this heart-breaking story way too much. You can feel it coming from a mile away. The conversation started out great; she’s smiling, laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as you continue.

Then…it happens.

You can call it a loss for words, a distraction, whatever you want. The one thing that matters is that it brings the conversation to a complete stop. This is not how you imagined it would go right. There’s a way to get things flowing smoothly again with just a little game.

Here is an awesome trick to get the conversation back on track and you can even steer it into a more promising direction.

It’s a little game I like to play when things aren’t quite going as smoothly as I would like, and I guarantee it will peak her interest. It is a leap ahead of the same lame pickup lines and lies she’s heard a thousand times before.

Here’s how it goes:

Look at her and say, “let’s play a game real quick.”

Just the idea of playing a game is going to be enough to grab her attention, and I guarantee she is going to be interested in what you have to say.

Look around the room and point out a random guy and ask her, “would you take him home, marry him, or kill him.

Now she might laugh at first, but let her know that you’re being serious by continuing to look at him then her like you’re waiting for a response. She’s going to size him up, and trust me, any woman is going to have an answer for any guy you might point out.

She’ll laugh at first. Then she’ll look over at your target and size him up. Make sure you get a nice broad selection of guys for her to choose from asking the same for each one.

This is going to do a few different things:

1. You are going to get some very valuable insight on what interests her in a man. You will definitely be able to see what different characteristics about a man interests her and which ones don’t.

Just think about it. She’s basically telling you exactly what it takes to seduce her. If you take mental notes and keep her interested in the game, you will be well on your way to the ultimate goal.

2. Make sure you tease her a little bit as you play the game to keep the energy right, just don’t be rude about it. Keep the conversation light and interesting, and remember to keep it fun-this is what she’s there for anyways.

Go ahead and show her your psychic side and tell her what you think she’s going to say before she does. This will keep the attention on her and allow you to keep you both on a level playing field by teasing her for her possible “distastefulness”.

3. It’s going to be delightfully easy to play along making subtle comments for the guys that she might be attracted to all while secretly completely TURNING HER ON. That’s right, she is going to be aroused if you play the game right.

Remember, you are going to ask her who she thinks she might sleep with. And this is going to be a conversation that she associates with you and you only.

4. She is going to be totally attracted to your confidence and willingness to talk about her being attracted to other men. Women are turned on by a man who is comfortable with his sexuality.

Almost all guys would be scared to even put the thought of her sleeping with another man in their minds. This once again will put you a step ahead of everyone else.

She is going to be completely intrigued by your cleverness and confidence after playing this game which will set you up perfectly for your next move.

All women have these sexual triggers, knowing how to stimulate them and then taking advantage of the extremely aroused woman in front of you makes the dating game so much easier than it was when you ran out of things to talk about thirty minutes ago.

This is just one part of learning how to stimulate those “sexual triggers” that women don’t even know they have. To learn more of these techniques check out this video, and you’ll be a dating pro in no time at all; even if you have never had a girlfriend.

It’s Okay If You Never had a Girlfriend….Really

Not having a girlfriend can feel like a curse to some guys, it did to me. You always feel like the third wheel when you go out with your friends and you try to over-compensate by trying a little too hard. This usually just makes you look like an idiot or “the guy who everyone laughs at”, but that’s not you and really there’s no need to try too hard. Yeah the girls might laugh at you and say you’re “funny”, but that’s not how you get a girlfriend- you and I both know this.

How to act around women if you have never had a girlfriend

There are a few things that you should keep in mind when out on the prowl. There is a certain image that women have in their mind as the perfect mate. In order to understand what a woman’s ideal man is you need to understand what a woman is looking for in a man. This can certainly vary from woman to woman, but there is a science to what women find attractive in a man whether they like to admit it or not. Take these into consideration before approaching a woman.

  1. While you might think the best way to attract a woman is to be loud and the center of attention, the opposite is actually true. Women are more intrigued by the guy that isn’t making a lot of noise and dancing on the bar. This doesn’t mean be a stalker in the shadows, have a good time with your friends without doing the worm on the bar and she’ll notice you.
  2. There’s a good chance that she is doing the same thing you are at the bar, club, bowling alley, etc.-she’s on the prowl too. This means you do have something in common, she spent all of that time picking out the perfect outfit and fixing her hair so she would be noticed. Don’t disappoint her by acting like she’s not there.
  3. She’s there to have a good time so if given the opportunity make her laugh. If you can make her laugh without telling knock-knock jokes you’re on the right track.
  4. Be confident but not cocky. You have probably heard this before in the past, but it’s true women are completely turned on by confidence. They’re looking for a man who doesn’t have the same insecurities that they deal with all day every day. They want a man who is going to level them out and give them something to strive for. Show her how to be confident in herself by displaying your self-confidence.
  5. Tell her you’ve had something for her every since you first saw her. Girls like to think they are goddesses who can steal all of your attention. Just be careful and don’t sound like a stalker. Right way- “I couldn’t help but notice you when you came in . I just really think you’re beautiful, and I would love to buy you a drink.”

The Approach

Here’s what they’re thinking:

Get’s pretty confusing right?

This is why it is so important that you have confidence, because women really aren’t that confident in themselves. They are attracted to someone who knows what they want. You need to be that guy. That’s the guy that can get a girlfriend anytime he wants.

Approaching a woman will cause you more anxiety than any other part of the dating game. We often build up in our mind how we expect things to go (this can probably be said about any aspect of life), but it usually isn’t as bad as we think it will be. There are ways to make this easier on you, one way is to randomly talk to strangers throughout the day: on the street, in the grocery store, etc. Get used to being out of your comfort zone and it will come a lot more natural when it really counts.

The hardest part of approaching a strange beautiful woman is knowing what to say to break the ice. This is probably the single biggest thing that keeps a guy from never approaching a woman. It really doesn’t have to be that big of a deal though. Women are just as nervous as you are with that first interaction. Cheesy pick up lines are expected by women, you really don’t want to do what is expected. You want to show them that you are different than what is expected. There are several subtle signs that you can give a woman through body language and the unspoken communication. This video shows some really good tips about what makes a woman tick and how you can use this knowledge to make yourself stand out from the crowd.

Here’s another way to conquer your fear, if you have never had a girlfriend.